"Let's Snuggle"

On May 19th, a 38-year-old man from Boston sent me a message through a dating website. We messaged back and forth for a bit before I gave him my cell phone number. We had one brief text conversation before the radio silence began. From start to finish, our "relationship" lasted 12 hours...and that's being generous.

On May 26th, the very same 38-year-old man from Boston sent me an identical first message through the same dating website.

What in the world?

This guy, clearly, uses that one *lame* message to reel in ladies...and it doesn't matter who he uses it on. Hell, he used it on me twice within just a few days.

AND what's funny/interesting/sad is that our text conversation was completely left open-ended. It was, more or less, left talking about potential dinner plans. I hadn't done anything to suggest that I didn't want to meet this individual. It was a very innocent, civil, friendly conversation.

It's clear to see that he's not interested in having dinner with me. My guess is that he doesn't want to sit through dinner at all; he just wants dessert (if you catch my drift). He's probably sitting in his Boston apartment cutting and pasting the same message into hundreds of profiles to see who bites.

I just hope that the young ladies who do respond to this guy...and the many guys like him...know going in that there is likely no long-term relationship to come as a result. Ladies, you're better than that. You deserve more.

Sorry, Adam. No, I will not snuggle with you.

* Please note that I responded to his second message with the following message:
"Dude. You already have my cell phone number. You clearly use "Let's Snuggle" as your go-to pick-up line."
He has not yet responded.